While our close family relationships, e.g. with the parents or siblings, are surrounded by strong cul tural norms and requirements, the relations with aunts and other women of “chosen kin” seldom meet strong expectations (Ellingson & Sotirin 2010). The article draws on interviews with two middleaged Swedish teachers, who reflect on the profound importance of “aunts” in their lives. They tell about how the aunts provided them with extra ordinary moments of loving presence and indulgence, practical and existential help, friendship and support in big and small issues – versatile re sources vital for their identity and quality of life.